You notice your partner freeze when a car backfires outside. They wake up from nightmares but won’t talk about what they dreamed. Simple things like crowds or unexpected sounds make them tense in ways that break your heart. You want to help, but you’re not sure how to reach them when they seem so far…
Parenting is one of the most rewarding and challenging roles in life. It can bring deep connection, joy, and love—but for many, it also comes with fear, self-doubt, and old wounds from childhood. If you grew up in a home with intergenerational trauma, adverse childhood experiences (ACEs), or emotionally unavailable caregivers, you might struggle with…
Trauma leaves deep imprints on how we see ourselves and navigate the world. If your early childhood lacked consistent emotional support or stability, you might feel the effects today as self-doubt, anxiety, or difficulty building healthy relationships. You might find yourself constantly apologizing for having needs or feeling like a burden to others. Healing is…
Breathing is something we do without thinking, every moment of our lives. It’s the first thing we do when we enter the world and the last thing we do before we leave. But beyond keeping us alive, our breath is also one of the most powerful tools for healing—especially for those recovering from trauma. If…
The sadness crept in months after the car accident. You healed physically, went back to work, resumed your routine. But something shifted. Mornings feel heavier. Small tasks drain you. Your mind cycles through worst-case scenarios you never worried about before. You’re not imagining this connection between your trauma and how you’ve been feeling lately. When…
In our fast-paced, mind-centered world, it’s easy to think of our bodies as simply the vessels that carry us through life. But they do much more than that—they hold onto our experiences, both joyful and painful. When we go through trauma, it doesn’t just affect our thoughts and emotions. It can leave lasting imprints on…
Trauma leaves a lasting imprint on both the mind and body, often in ways we don’t fully understand. One of the most common responses to trauma is dissociation—a sense of disconnect from reality, emotions, or even from your own body. For many trauma survivors, dissociation can feel like zoning out, watching life from a distance…
It’s been a year since the car accident. You walked away with minor injuries, and everyone told you how lucky you were. But lately, you’ve noticed something strange: every time you get in a car, your heart races. You avoid highways. You snap at your partner for no reason. You’re exhausted all the time, but…
How Does Trauma Disrupt Sleep? Trauma can touch every part of life, including sleep. After a difficult event, you might notice nightmares, frequent awakenings, or long stretches of staring at the ceiling. Many people feel stuck in a cycle of poor sleep at night and low energy during the day. Evidence shows that trauma and…
Have you ever had a stranger pay for your coffee? Found a kind note tucked inside a library book? Maybe someone let you go ahead of them in line at the grocery store, or you received a handwritten letter from a loved one when you needed it most. These random acts of kindness may seem…